BTW in the AUS Spec SJ NA 2.5 Forester the Auto Start-Stop is disabled when a trailer is connected 
Would there be any unintended consequences of using this approach? I thought I read somewhere that when the 2019 is electrically hooked up to a trailer connection, torque vectoring and other handling/transmission set points and responses are adjusted. Would be worth an inquiry to Subaru to confirm.There is a stop engine workaround. If you have a factory tow bar fitted, buy a trailer electrical plug & make a connection in the pins which sends a signal to the computer to say you have a trailer connected. This turns off the stop start system while the plug remains in the socket. I don't know what pins to connect, just google it. Good luck or speak to an Auto electrician.
I just looked at the back of my Forester and the plug for the trailer connection is in place. Here are two pictures of it. Seems like it would only need a plug with the correct wires shorted. A wiring harness that is available at about 40$ is all that it would take to try !Sounds like it would be easy to make a plug for the trailer connection module to keep the auto start/stop feature from activating. All you would need is a pinout or schematic to figure it out.
I just looked at the back of my Forester and the plug for the trailer connection is in place. Here are two pictures of it. Seems like it would only need a plug with the correct wires shorted. A wiring harness that is available at about 40$ is all that it would take to try !