You guys don’t get it. I turned off all of the beeps. In about four different places. And it’s still beeping. There was one stretch of road today where it beeped on and off about 15 times in 20 seconds. I’m not being hysterical. I’m genuinely pissed off at this car. And I’m sorry if you don’t understand that women actually do get their pocketbook stolen at gas stations. And I did a ton of research before I bought this car. I’ve been driving a Subaru for 10 years; I expected to love it. I just happen to think it sucks and I did want to rant.
No, I get it. My wife owns a 2020 Forester Premium with these features including the power lift gate, RCTA, BSD, etc.
What would really help is knowing exactly what these "beeps" are that you're mentioning. There should be an indication on your instrument cluster as to what these are. Also, what were the circumstances? What was on and what was turned off at the time?
As for the purse, it's not that I can't see this from the perspective of a woman. It doesn't take an imagination to identify these kinds of vulnerabilities. Ask my wife. ....I spend enough time preaching to her about how to mitigate risk in situations like this. For example (more specific to this scenario), not buying gas at night, not running the tank so low that she doesn't have a choice, choosing well populated areas with lots of folks like our local Costco, staying alert and most of all, making sure others around you know you are alert. Look around and check your mirrors. In other words, don't look like a target and you likely won't be. ....no different than advice I would give another guy or my son.
I also remind her not to keep valuables in the car and keep her purse tucked away (e.g. behind the seat for safety as well as keeping it out of sight). I do the same with my backpack, my wallet, my tablet, electronics, etc. ....keep the key FOB on you, not in the car, in a purse in the car, etc.
In either case, like I mentioned earlier, if you want to lock the car you can simply reach over and touch the front door handle after you open the gas door. It works on my wife's car as I just checked. .....or as mentioned, use the fob after opening the gas door.
Locking the car doors locks the gas door which makes perfect sense to me. It helps ensure others can't easily gain access while you are away.
Look, if you're seeking assistance, we are here to help. We can help you identify possible problems (if that's the case) or even provide solutions that you may not know or have thought about. ....but if you're mind is already set on hating this car, not trying to learn more about it and just getting rid of it, then I guess all I can do is wish you luck.