I totally get it, and I can agree with what the OP is saying. Someone said the OP should have done their research before buying it. The OP said they had a 2013 Forester and loved it, and you expect the newer one to be even better, you already know you like it. Someone made an issue of the locking gas cap. Come on, not everybody likes the same thing or lives in the same situation. I've been a Subaru buyer since 2009. I've bought 4 new Legacys and 1 Forester since 2009. I didn't have to research the latest Legacy, I already owned 3 of them and loved them so why not buy the 4th (2020)? Well, the 4th one sucks, and I absolutely HATE IT. It can happen. Personal preference, everything is subjective and I respect the OP's position, and they are entitled to state their opinion. You can disagree, but why dig into them?
I think there were a couple of us but yes, one of those was me.
Yes, I still believe she should have done her research as I would suggest anyone do when buying a new car. In this day and age when you can learn so much about your new car purchase before you walk onto a dealer lot, it's the best thing a consumer can do.
Think about it.... A new car is likely to be the 2nd largest purchase most people will make besides a home. For some, it will be their biggest. Many will also take out 5+ year loans to help pay for them. It makes sense to know as much as you can about it before committing to something like that.
You can't completely rely on previous experience with a brand / model. People that do risk the same grief the OP is going through. Things change including the platform, drivetrains, features and especially the technology. ...sometimes drastically between generations.
We've had 3 new Subarus since my '03 WRX. Every one of them I researched and was aware of the features and the operation of them. I also visited sites / forums like these and got a feel for potential problems. .....again, something that changes over time with each model year, changes in design / production, parts, generations, etc.
After putting 253k on my wife '08 Forester, we were automatically drawn to the 2020's when it was time to replace it. However, I made no assumptions the 2020 would be anything like her 2008 and it wasn't. ......except for some basic attributes. We were talking about a new larger platform, different transmission, different engine, different management systems, different handling characteristics, cabin changes and so on. Most of all, there was a huge jump in technology. ....all of which I spent time researching (actually downloading the manuals which are free) and getting familiar with before I even contacted our dealer so we knew what to expect.
When someone comes here (first post) to just completely bash on their new purchase and say how unhappy they are about the features, etc. as if it's Subaru's fault, yeah, I stated the obvious. ....but I also offered help as did several others to figure out the "incessant beeping" issue she had among others like how to easily lock the car by touching the handle after accessing the fuel door. ....and if some actually read through the thread, they would see the beeping wasn't something normal like she thought. It was her dog shifting around on the back seat and the sensor tripping the audible warning. She discovered that after making appointment with the dealer which she then cancelled. Someone else actually provided a work-around for it as well.
I get it. Some folks will have buyers remorse and even get emotional about it. Again, it's an expensive purchase. However, she knew enough about car forums to find this one to vent her frustrations. My advice would be that next time, use it and others to do some research on the next purchase or at least in the meantime, learn about the car she now has and perhaps other issues she is experiencing, we can help her out with. Who knows, she may even find out it's not as bad as she thought and / or some of these issues (like the incessant beeping) aren't really issues with the car per se and can be easily resolved.