The talk of "3000 lb" is probably coming from buzz specifically about the 2022+ Wilderness model, which has an added CVT oil cooler. That said, I am quite sure that the 1500 lb limitation on both of our 2017 models is a conservative limit driven mostly by Subaru's desire to minimize warranty repair costs, and the Subaru of America Marketing department's assessment that few Forester sales would be lost based on towing capacity. I have towed 1,000 lb (a rented teardrop trailer) a long ways - 10,000 miles, Seattle to Newfoundland and back - and all performance aspects of my XT were totally acceptable. Acceleration, handling stability, braking, were all only slightly affected, and still very acceptable, at all speeds and road conditions we experienced. Some degree of verification is provided by the much higher towing limits of Outback and Ascent models, which have very similar engineering to our Foresters. This leaves me thinking your most significant risk is legal - if you ever have an accident where you are at fault, while towing 3,000 lb, will your insurance company, and the trial jury, back you up? Will the police ticket you for overweight towing? The more time and distance you spend towing, the more it will be hard to get around this.