You need to make your own decision...you're a BIG boy. If you want a Subaru, you get a CVT. You want a Honda, you get a CVT. If you don't like the thought of a CVT, then buy something else without one. I have had a number of CVT's over the years dating back to 2003 and never an issue with any of my CVTs. Subaru is know to make one of the best CVTs for whatever it's worth. Nissan is the worst. My first Subaru was a 2013 and never had any issues with that one either.