Go aftermarket, less likely to break again. Buy the windshield without the deicer. Glass shop I talked to said absolutely no problem on Subaru if you don’t hook up the deicer. Since you’re in California I seriously doubt you need a deicer!
X2. My windshield chipped, starred (many) and then spiderwebbed even after having all chips and starts quickly fixed, new car glass is cheap crap. I don't have the de-icer on mine (would be nice) and recently went with aftermarket glass, at a local independent glass shop that has done many repairs for me over the years and asked them all the questions about wavy glass, distortions etc. They said guaranteed and they always pre-check it for waviness. I checked it out before paying and gotta say it looks good...and I'm very picky.What's the big deal with the deicer? My 2010 Limited had the wiper deicer and I had several chips fixed over the years. You might want to try another glass shop. Safelite did mine.
If you go with aftermarket glass, I hear that PPG/PGW or LOF makes good glass.