I've been using AS/S on short trips 5 days a week minimum, for the past year/10,000 miles. It has adequate charge most mornings within 2 miles to the first stoplight to shut off the engine. If the battery wasn't sufficiently charged, or the engine warm enough, it would not activate.
There are a lot of times the voltage drops to 11.2 volts when driving. It has yet to show any signs of difficulty cranking over.
Most times it's running, and leaving the light well before the cars that never shut off. There is virtually no lag compared to a regular car.
Is it going to kill the battery?
Time will tell, but if it's so bad, it will be on Subaru, because reading online, it will be lucky to make it a few years with normal driving.
I have saved 5.5 hours idling time, and a bit over 2 gallons.
I doubt there's any additional wear on the engine. It's far from a cold start each time. The oil is hot and everything is covered.
Even on a cold start the oil light is out before it fires.
That's also over 5 hours it isn't building carbon on the intake valves. Nobody wants to talk about that though.
At idle is when the PCV usually pulls from the valve covers more than driving in a lower manifold vacuum situation.
Just thinking out loud here: Consider AS/S didn't come about en mass until GDI on Subaru, at least in the States. In addition to reducing emissions, reducing cabin buildup might have been a conveniently unmentioned feature of AS/S.