@Tomblan I don't have a Subaru with those options but does the system listen when you issue a voice command?
It may help you determine whether the microphone is the problem or bluetooth. If voice commander works, the mike is fine, clearly.
I’ve paired 3 different phones and all have the same issue. Called dealer service writer and he said bring it in for a look see. Also mentioned perhaps the microphone switch was turned off or way down. I’ll go see what they say but not paying $100 diagnostic fee to be told I need a new head unit. Would buy an aftermarket unit or mount an iPad there. Never used the starlink, just music, Bluetooth cell, and back up camera.
$500 for crutchfield unit or iPad. I’ve read Ipad also takes data from obd port and gives readings on display too.
Will post response after dealer visit