Edit: Oops, I missed the word manual -- I was assuming an automatic transmission.
I use 11126AA000 on my '02 and my daughter's '03.
Same crush washer as on my oil plug. I read somewhere on this forum (way back when) that they were the same washer, and it has worked for me. What I have taken off of the transmission plug looked identical to what I have taken off of the oil plug.